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Hi Ambrose,
My girlfriend has gone off the boil and I don’t know how to put the spice back into our relationship. She’s been working late, and says that she’s too worn out for romance. But I’m feeling rejected! Any good advice?
AL in Kemptown, Brighton
In my experience, women love romantic surprises, so conjure up a relaxing, seductive atmosphere. If you can afford it, take her away to a spa hotel for some pampering! If that’s out of the question, cook her meal, splash out on some champagne and for the music, either go for a Love CD or the latest album from local boys, the Kooks.
Dear Ambrose,
I recently split with my boyfriend after he told me he did not want commitment, but I can’t get him out of my mind. I feel like I am lost without him and cant find the enthusiasm to get out and about again with my friends when all I want to do is call him and tell him how much I love him. How can I move on when I still want him and no-one else?
Lucy in Brighton
Maybe its time to make a choice. Do you really want him or commitment? If you want him, then go and get him, and accept him as he is. If you truly want commitment, make it a goal and go search for someone new. LoveBrighton will help you, giving you a wide choice of men to choose from and who knows what the future may hold. Good Luck!!
Hi Mr Lurve,
I am 40, gay and have a new boyfriend. He is twenty years my junior. He hangs around with a girl friend his own age and they are together all the time. He says they are just good friends, but I am not so sure. All my friends say he is using me and I should dump him. Should I listen to them?
Andrew in Hove
Well, this sounds like a love triangle to me. In one respect, you are happy to have a new lover and one, half your age, but then again the complication of a girl friend. You need to be sure that you are not being led up the garden path, have a chat with your boyfriend to clear the air and then protect yourself during sex, but eventually you will have to make a choice and listen to your friends.
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